Chapters of Our Life
Chapter 1
We got married and we were happy. Then one day, we walked down the sidewalk and fell into a deep, dark hole. We couldn’t get out, we couldn’t be close anymore, and we couldn’t figure out why. I thought it must be either your fault or my fault. We never quite got out of the hole; we just somehow moved on.
Chapter 2
We walked down the sidewalk and fell into the same deep hole. I still thought it must be either your fault or my fault. It was a real struggle and we realized we needed help to get out. We didn’t just move on. We found an EFT therapist.
Chapter 3
We started EFT therapy. We walked down the sidewalk and fell into the same deep hole again. Now we started to understand – it wasn’t my fault and it wasn’t your fault. It was our negative pattern – it was the cycle’s fault. It was a struggle to get out, but we did get out.
Chapter 4
We continued EFT therapy. We walked down the sidewalk and fell into the same deep hole again. This time we knew – it wasn’t my fault or your fault – we were both caught by the cycle. We knew we were both hurting. We reached for each other and we got out easily.
Chapter 5
We continued EFT therapy. We walked down the sidewalk and saw the hole. We reached for each other and we walked around it. We didn’t fall into the hole.
Chapter 6
We finished EFT therapy. We reached for each other and we chose another sidewalk.
